Breaking Up

Why do people still be in their relationship, if everyday they whine about it?

Why keeping something that you yourself doesn't even feel happy about?

Why do you need to be afraid of losing something that suffers you?

Don't be blind, open your eyes wide and see! There are more things to be considerated beside the mere love you have for him.

If he doesn't make you happy, then he's not the one.

If he doesn't keep you sane, then he's not the one.

If he doesn't love the ones who love you, he's not the one.

If you can't be yourself when he's around, he DEFINITELY is not the one.

Don't be afraid about getting the right person, they'll come to you eventually. All that you need is only patience. They might not be with you now, but just consider it like they're in training, with 'wrong' ladies, so that they can be the best when they're with you later on.

Someone for you would make you feel pretty, important, and comfortable, for the way that you are.

Someone for you would listen.

Someone for you would happy to make you feel happy, but at the same time, would keep you walk within the line.

And if you there's any of you girls out there who had found someone with those characteristics, and is currently having trouble with him, DON'T EVER THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP.

Never mind small stuffs like he likes to be with his friends more, he didn't text, he didn't call, he snores when he's sleeping, he's not physically good or any kind of those things. Those things are only representations of your own pride, nothing more. So PLEASE. Don't ever.

Because finding someone like that is as hard as erasing someone important from your memory. As hard as stop sobbing when you're watching PS: I Love You. As hard as stop shopping when you're under pressure.

Those small stuffs, believe me, would be gone and would no longer be a trouble not more than two minutes after your thinking of it. It'd be a shame to hold on to your pride and make a very bad decision after.

Dedicated especially for myself :)